I am 22 and he is 23. The things he's done are....going to bars when I was pregnant, saying he'd be home at 12 get home around 3. He got a DUI, then kept going out with his friends, on our last weekend before our son was born we were supposed to do something as our last just us time and he went out with his friends. Even after our son was born he will blow off our plans for his friends. Now this doesn't happen all the time only about 4 days in a time span of a month or two since his friend is gone in the navy
It sounds like he needs to reprioritize. You need to sit him down and calmly tell him how you feel-no crying, no screaming, and don't do it while he's doing something to make you upset. My husband is 26, and would never dream of doing any of that to us-because he knows that DS and I are his priority, and he is a mature, rational adult. Yes, he goes out with his friends, but he never blows us off, drinks and drives (which is a huge issue for me, btw), or lies to me. I agree with a PP, your DH may have a drinking problem if he's going out and getting wasted right after getting a DUI.