Thank you for all the suggestions. I do think we may both regret it if we don't pick a name that we both love.
I have thought about Hayden as the middle name but its been difficult as most of the names I seem to like end in an "n" sound and then it just doesn't flow. I'm not sure what other names DH likes, so maybe he can give me some other suggestions that would work better..if I can get him to at least talk about this, ha.
Our girls names were chosen simply because we liked the names, no family connection at all, which actually makes me shy away from naming this one with a family name. I guess we have time to worry about it, but I like to be prepared and want the name picked out ahead of time!