We're trying to save money so we're going cheap this year. I bought DH a year sub to Pandora One.
I did this for DH our first Christmas together & he loved it so much he gets it renewed every year! DH listens on his phone, so there was no way for him to stay under the 40 hour limit, plus no ads = awesome!
DH & I don't get gifts for each other any more. For my birthday, we do dinner & a movie. For his, we do wine tasting, For Christmas, we go to an "event" together. Last year, it was a concert. This year, it will be an opera - but it will have to happen later, since I didn't like any of this season's shows :p