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12-10-2012 at 9:36 PM
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I will bring this up next week at my appt for more reassurance....but one thing I've always been worried about, more so than anything else, is having the cord wrapped around baby's neck and not knowing it.

I know you're supposed to monitor movements and all that, but lets say you don't feel movement 1 day, is there anything they can do? the u/s place is only open during business hours.  How long can a baby survive in the womb if the cord is wrapped? what's the standard level of care in this situation?

My baby has been moving non-stop the past 2 days and I just can't help but think what if he moves too much to the point where he just gets wrapped in the cord? 

 


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12-10-2012 at 10:08 PM
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I thought the only 'danger' with a cord wrapped around the neck is during delivery.  Sure, things can happen inside, but once the baby starts moving down the birth canal and the cord stretches is when it can tighten.  

I wouldn't spend too much time worrying about it, though.  It's pretty common (my mom was an L&D nurse and saw it a lot) and it's not like you can do anything about it.


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12-10-2012 at 10:11 PM
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Both of my boys were born with the cord around their neck. It's common and not usually a big deal. In the womb, they are getting oxygen and nutrients through the cord itself, so it being wrapped around the baby doesn't matter at all. 

 
12-10-2012 at 10:16 PM
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I thought the only 'danger' with a cord wrapped around the neck is during delivery.  Sure, things can happen inside, but once the baby starts moving down the birth canal and the cord stretches is when it can tighten.  

I wouldn't spend too much time worrying about it, though.  It's pretty common (my mom was an L&D nurse and saw it a lot) and it's not like you can do anything about it.

I've read this too...babies don't breath through their trachea in the womb so a cord around their neck in the womb doesn't really pose any danger.... only at the time of delivery... and even then it's very common.. something like 30-40% of babies are born with the cord around their neck. The medical team know how to deal with this safely.  


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12-10-2012 at 10:17 PM
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Ditto the other posters - they don't breathe oxygen through their mouth in the womb, so they can't really "choke" from the cord in the womb. A lot of babies (I think it's about 1/3) are born with cords wrapped around their necks - mine was one of them. It's very, very rarely problematic.

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12-10-2012 at 10:32 PM
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The cord does not cause problems unless there is something wrong with the actual cord. The umbilical cord is like a garden hose with full pressure water pumping through it. It is difficult to bend, kink, etc. It won't choke your baby. Cords wrapping around a babies neck only cause problems during delivery. Also the cord is not like feet long so it isn't going to get wrapped around and around baby.

 
12-10-2012 at 10:56 PM
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My 1st daughter was born vaginally with the cord wrapped around her neck. We didn't know it until she was born, they said it was common, the doctor cut it as soon as the head was out, then let my husband cut the rest of the cord. As you can see she's big and healthy and just as much of a PITA as any other 3 year old could be. ;-)
12-10-2012 at 11:35 PM
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does anyone know what would cause a baby to die during birth? I don't know the entire story but my friend's step sister felt the baby move just fine and then went to deliver a stillborn baby who was blue

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12-10-2012 at 11:45 PM
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RussianMommy:
does anyone know what would cause a baby to die during birth? I don't know the entire story but my friend's step sister felt the baby move just fine and then went to deliver a stillborn baby who was blue

 

That's terrible, and I'm sorry she had to go through that. My best friend Had 2 stillbirths, and she was told it could have been many things. From blood clots in the cord to viral infections, but in the end both came back as inconclusive. I don't think Dr.'s are 100% sure of these things. Most of time they are just speculating.


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12-10-2012 at 11:47 PM
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RussianMommy:
does anyone know what would cause a baby to die during birth? I don't know the entire story but my friend's step sister felt the baby move just fine and then went to deliver a stillborn baby who was blue

That's terrible, I'm so sorry for her.  :-(  My mom has helped deliver a few stillborns and I'm sure it's the worst thing ever.

I think there are many things that could cause that, but looking them up and worrying about them is pointless.   


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12-10-2012 at 11:51 PM
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RussianMommy:
does anyone know what would cause a baby to die during birth? I don't know the entire story but my friend's step sister felt the baby move just fine and then went to deliver a stillborn baby who was blue

That's terrible, I'm so sorry for her.  :-(  My mom has helped deliver a few stillborns and I'm sure it's the worst thing ever.

I think there are many things that could cause that, but looking them up and worrying about them is pointless.   

I can't imagine :( 

 


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12-11-2012 at 12:29 AM
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RussianMommy:
does anyone know what would cause a baby to die during birth? I don't know the entire story but my friend's step sister felt the baby move just fine and then went to deliver a stillborn baby who was blue

There are many possibilities. A short cord. A condition that causes the baby to be too weak to survive labor & delivery. If you are going the hospital route, you will have monitors attached to you at all times, unless you request only periodic checks, so you will hear that reassuring heartbeat. My sister had an emergency c-section because they lost the heartbeat, and had a team from peds waiting to revive, but the baby came out screaming, so it was likely an issue with the babies position or a machine malfunction. 

Try to not worry about things out of your control, as PPs have said. 


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12-11-2012 at 12:31 AM
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This post and comments have been helpful! I have had the same fear; baby tangling herself in the cord and having a still birth. Thanks for the post 
12-11-2012 at 12:51 AM
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Not trying to scare people, but I believe knowledge is power. Cords can get tied in knots. It is called a cord accident. They usually do it very early, and then as they grow, it can cut off blood supply. My friend lost her son at 38 weeks due to this. This is why the ask you to monitor activity. Her son stopped moving in the evening. When she called the next morning, it was too late.

If you aren't feeling movement, drink a soda, and lie down. If that doesn't work in an hour, call. Better to feel dumb than not have your baby.


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12-11-2012 at 1:01 AM
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Not trying to scare people, but I believe knowledge is power. Cords can get tied in knots. It is called a cord accident. They usually do it very early, and then as they grow, it can cut off blood supply. My friend lost her son at 38 weeks due to this. This is why the ask you to monitor activity. Her son stopped moving in the evening. When she called the next morning, it was too late.

If you aren't feeling movement, drink a soda, and lie down. If that doesn't work in an hour, call. Better to feel dumb than not have your baby.

At how many weeks do you need to feel regular movement?? Mine has moved all today but calmed down this evening.

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12-11-2012 at 2:57 AM
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I agree with PPs that the cord being wrapped usually just causes a problem during delivery. My DS was born with the cord around his neck and nobody knew until he came out. So it caused a problem, he wasn't breathing, and he came out gray almost blue. It felt like an eternity but eventually I heard his first cry and everything turned out fine. He's a very healthy 2.5 year old.

You will make yourself crazy with all the what if's. Try to relax, I know it's hard, but stressing isn't good for baby either.


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12-11-2012 at 6:59 AM
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I thought the only 'danger' with a cord wrapped around the neck is during delivery. nbsp;Sure, things can happen inside, but once the baby starts moving down the birth canal and the cord stretches is when it can tighten. nbsp;I wouldn't spend too much time worrying about it, though. nbsp;It's pretty common my mom was an Lamp;D nurse and saw it a lot and it's not like you can do anything about it.


This.

My mom gave birth to me via emergency csection because of fetal distress and the cord being around my neck.

With my Ds, I had a normal labor and he was never in distress. However, as he was coming out, my Dr. realized the cord was around his neck. My Dr. quickly unlooped it as he was coming out and my husband wasn't allowed to cut the cord. I was able to hold him for just a moment and then the swept him off to the NICU for oxygen. He was very purple, so I knew he needed it.

They returned him a few hours later and all was well!

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12-11-2012 at 7:47 AM
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I know it's incredibly difficult and I still worry with my third, but please stop looking up or worrying too much about all these scenarios.  Yes they happen and they are horrible.  But the majority of births end in a crying baby.  Please try to stay positive cause you could stress yourself out too much worrying about the what ifs.  

Do what you can to keep yourself and pregnancy healthy.  Call the OB if you have any questions or real concerns of course and try to relax.  

Nothing can guarantee  you a live healthy baby, but honestly if something does happen it is not your fault and there is nothing you could have done differently.  With all the technology we have now, you have the best possible odds of knowing ahead of time if something is wrong than you ever did.  

Good luck with your pregnancy and delivery and try to focus on the positive and happy parts of being pregnant!! 




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12-11-2012 at 8:10 AM
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I was concerned about this as well, but reading the other posters comments makes me feel a bit better.

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12-11-2012 at 10:40 AM
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Although I totally get anxiety in pregnancy and I think your fears are understandable, you have to try to find a way to let them go.  The things that you are worrying about are very rare and quite frankly out of your control.  Thinking about all the things that can cause a baby to die during birth is only going to stress you out.  

I know these feelings cannot be turned off.  Maybe have a talk with your OB about your concerns and they can explain the odds to you to try to give you peace of mind.  

These things do happen and they are terrible but the are rare. Still births happen in less than 0.5% of all pregnancies.  Those still births being caused by a cord accident is less than 5% of those still births.  

Take a deep breath and remind yourself that you feel your baby moving and today, everything your baby is alive and everything is ok.  Babies are very active and it is good for them to wiggle all around.   

 


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12-11-2012 at 10:44 AM
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Not trying to scare people, but I believe knowledge is power. Cords can get tied in knots. It is called a cord accident. They usually do it very early, and then as they grow, it can cut off blood supply. My friend lost her son at 38 weeks due to this. This is why the ask you to monitor activity. Her son stopped moving in the evening. When she called the next morning, it was too late. If you aren't feeling movement, drink a soda, and lie down. If that doesn't work in an hour, call. Better to feel dumb than not have your baby.
At how many weeks do you need to feel regular movement?? Mine has moved all today but calmed down this evening.

I am 26 weeks and my OB said as long as I feel my LO once a day at this point I am fine.  I feel here throughout the day but that is the standard at this point.

 


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watermelon mom:
Not trying to scare people, but I believe knowledge is power. Cords can get tied in knots. It is called a cord accident. They usually do it very early, and then as they grow, it can cut off blood supply. My friend lost her son at 38 weeks due to this. This is why the ask you to monitor activity. Her son stopped moving in the evening. When she called the next morning, it was too late.

If you aren't feeling movement, drink a soda, and lie down. If that doesn't work in an hour, call. Better to feel dumb than not have your baby.

At how many weeks do you need to feel regular movement?? Mine has moved all today but calmed down this evening.


I read in a pamphlet yesterday at 28 wks you should feel the baby move every 4 hours and if its been more than 4 hrs to call your doc. STM is this whatvy your doc told you?

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I have recently been worrying about this too. I know its early but it is a scary thought and we cant help our thoughts..just need to find reassuring information to help ease the mind! these ladies have been a help to me too!
 
12-11-2012 at 10:33 PM
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watermelon mom:
Not trying to scare people, but I believe knowledge is power. Cords can get tied in knots. It is called a cord accident. They usually do it very early, and then as they grow, it can cut off blood supply. My friend lost her son at 38 weeks due to this. This is why the ask you to monitor activity. Her son stopped moving in the evening. When she called the next morning, it was too late. If you aren't feeling movement, drink a soda, and lie down. If that doesn't work in an hour, call. Better to feel dumb than not have your baby.

First off, it's called a true knot.  It's a knot in the cord when the baby swims through a loop early in pregnancy.  It's dangerous during delivery because as the cord stretches, the knot pulls and cuts off oxygen to the baby.  

Secondly, for SOME people knowledge is power.  For others, it freaks them the eff out.  OP was already worried enough.  She didn't need more uncontrollable issues being thrown at her.

And thirdly, a true knot isn't the ONLY reason they ask you to monitor movement.  There are many other random things that can happen, sadly, as PPs have mentioned. 


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