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I'm so sorry for your loss. I have people in my life who I thought would always be there for me, and they've been the most insensitive. I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but I've basically been ignoring everyone that hasn't been supportive of me and DH. I deactivated my facebook, and I think kind of checking out of reality for a while has helped me. I get why you're upset and you have every right to be...but with everything you have to deal with after losing your son I just don't think you should have to deal with confronting a 'friend'. The way I've handled this type of person in my life is by basically cutting them out. Obviously they're not concerned with my feelings...so I'm not gonna bother with them. The most important thing for you to do is to take care of yourself..so whatever you have to do to make yourself feel better..then do it. If that's cutting these people out of your lives..do it. If it's confronting them..then that's what you have to do. You have to do whatever is best for you right now.
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