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12-14-2012 at 10:31 AM
Bayberry12
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Just checking in

I haven't been checking in that much lately, but I have been reading every post, and I am so heartbroken to see so many new moms here.  As some of you know I recently found out I was pregnant again.  Sadly, today it was determined that this pregnancy is not viable.  I don't want to go to mc board, even though that is what I am going through, it so different after having a stillborn.  

It is really bringing up all the emotions of loss and wishing she was here, and thinking *she should be here!*  We have already been struggling with with the holidays and family not understanding why we are still grieving, and now with another mc on top of everything, its really hard.      
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BFP #1 Jan. 2011 - mmc Mar. 2011
BFP #2 Aug. 2011 - My sleeping angel Stella, born April 21, 2012
BFP #3 Nov. 2012 - mmc Dec. 2012
BFP #4 Apr. 2013 - mc May 2013  
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12-14-2012 at 11:03 AM
lolee465
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Oh no! I'm so sorry you're going through another loss, and I don't think you should go to the m/c board..you should stay right here! ((hugs)) This is so unfair.:(
Jillian Rose- born 8/26/12 at 24 weeks. "It broke my heart to lose you but you didn't go alone, for a part of me went with you, the day God took you home"
I love you always, my beautiful girl.
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12-14-2012 at 11:23 AM
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I am just so, so sorry to hear this.  It's bad enough to go through it once let alone twice - even if it is different.  I hate this for all of us.  Huge, huge hugs to you sweetie!
In memory of Corbin Scott 10/28/11-12/3/11. Heaven got another angel the night you left this world behind Heaven got a little better the day it took you away from me Missing you tonight, see you again sometime For now I'll close my eyes and dream of heaven tonight I'll love you forever I'll like you for always As long as I'm living My baby you'll be Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers corbinsmommy.blogspot.com Lilypie Pregnancy tickers  
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12-14-2012 at 12:20 PM
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I'm so sorry you are going through this in addition to your previous loss. That is totally unfair! Thinking of you!
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12-14-2012 at 12:59 PM
rsigler
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I am so sorry, it must be so difficult to have to deal with those losses back to back. This is totally unfair. I am angry for you. Of course you are welcome to come here whenever you need support. Sending you many [hugs]

EDD: 10/13/13
It's a GIRL!!!
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12-14-2012 at 1:29 PM
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I am so sorry for you, it really is not fair at all. I bet this time of year makes it even harder, I am praying for you right now. 

 

I understand why you don't want to be on the mc page, you belong here because we know and understand what you went through and we know how much you wanted this pregnancy to work out. I am so sorry.

Hang in there, your in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you.. 
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12-14-2012 at 1:43 PM
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I am so, so sorry.  ((hugs)).  Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. 
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BFP#1 - EDD 8/5/10, DS arrived 7/24/10 via emergency c-section.

BFP#2 - EDD 2/23/13, sweet baby girl born sleeping on 10/4/12 at 19 weeks, 3 days.

BFP #3 - EDD 10/1/13, natural mc on 2/2/13 at 5 weeks, 4 days. 
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12-14-2012 at 3:15 PM
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I am so sorry. We are absolutely here for you - you should stay here instead of go to the m/c board. Lots of hugs and thoughts your way.
.:.Charmed Kind of Life [6.19.13].:.

JJ 12.4.08::Devon born sleeping 8.19.12::Baby No. 3 due 1.26.14

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bfp #3 5.17.13 edd 1.26.14 -- stick, baby, stick! hoping this is our rainbow! 
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12-14-2012 at 6:04 PM
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I haven't been on in a little while but am glad that I checked in today so that I could offer you some support. Life is so unfair-I am so sorry that this is happening to you. My deepest sympathies.
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12-14-2012 at 7:35 PM
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I'm so sorry you're experiencing another loss. It is truly heartbreaking and numbing. We are here for you.  {{hugs}}
BFP #1 - Missed M/C, D&C 3.21.11

BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
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Beatrix V. Q. born at 23w6d!
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12-14-2012 at 9:43 PM
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(((Hugs))). I'm so sorry you are going through this after you have already been through so much.  We are here for you.  
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12-15-2012 at 8:59 AM
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Oh sweetie, I hate hearing this. I'm going through some of the same things right now, if you need to talk I'm always here for you. Huge hugs!
"Keep on dreaming even if it breaks your heart"
BFP#1: EDD 10/19/2007 DD born 9/26/07 at 36 weeks due to PIH and Pre-E
BFP#2- EDD 12/23/2012 DS born 7/16/12 at 17 weeks due to PPROM and placental abruption
You will be in my heart forever sweet boy
BFP#3: EDD 7/30/12 MMC at 7 weeks, 2 days, D&C 12/14/12
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12-16-2012 at 11:02 AM
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I am so sorry to hear this Bayberry.  Also to a&aw!  I hate that you have to experience this pain after the pain you have already felt.  Both of you please stay here!  It is a totally different dynamic over here.  HUGS to you both
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