Thank you guys for responding! I will try to remember who said what to reply :)
Ars- Thank goodness it isn't bathing suit weather! It was this summer though, thankfully the only pools I was in were my neighbors and my parents and they both knew! :)
Crystal- I think you might be on to something. My DH did mine and he was so slow and careful (which is very sweet) I think I may tell him this time to just GO! :)
Trixie- You also might be right. He went very slowly and probably pinched too hard too! When is your Beta? I read your siggy!
Kfly- when you said you alternated you mean you started right side and then all the way over to your left the next night? That might help! I will ask my RE!