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12-17-2012 at 11:18 AM
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I think I'm going to go live in hole, anyone want to join me? (babies mentioned, not mine)

Just heard that a 2nd friend of mine had her baby today - 2 days after another friend had hers.  Everyone's having babies.  I miss my baby.  I want him back.  My heart hurts.  Thinking about living in a hole where no one has babies.  Anyone want to come with?  I really don't think I can take much more of this.
In memory of Corbin Scott 10/28/11-12/3/11. Heaven got another angel the night you left this world behind Heaven got a little better the day it took you away from me Missing you tonight, see you again sometime For now I'll close my eyes and dream of heaven tonight I'll love you forever I'll like you for always As long as I'm living My baby you'll be Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers corbinsmommy.blogspot.com Lilypie Pregnancy tickers  
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12-17-2012 at 12:01 PM
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I'll join ya! Since my loss I have a new niece, 2 new nephews, and my brother just announced that there's another on the way...:( It's so hard..
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12-17-2012 at 2:17 PM
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Thinking of you flutter!! I'm so sorry you are feeling this way!! Huge hugs coming to you!!!
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12-17-2012 at 2:18 PM
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Make room for me!!!! Babies are everywhere at my work! Why do they get to keep theirs, and I don't?!?

I'm currently in the 'life is so unfair' mindset, so I'll try not to be a downer :
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12-17-2012 at 4:05 PM
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I'll join.  I found out a couple months back that friend of a friend is TTC, and I have a sneaking suspicion that she's pregnant.  So I'm ignoring the entire group of friends.  Mature, huh?  If I could crawl in that hole with you to avoid all babies and pregnant (or even potentially pregnant) women, I would.  I'd even bring the wine.  Wink

 ((hugs))

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12-17-2012 at 5:37 PM
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A part of me wants to join. I have three close friends and a family member all due in January (when I was due). Its going to be a hard month, I know. I want to rejoice with them in the joy of their babies and the life that they have, but I know it will bring unwanted pain to me as well at times.
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12-17-2012 at 8:57 PM
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I'll join you, and I'll bring the chocolate....and wine.....

I'm sorry there are so many new babies around. :( 

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12-17-2012 at 10:21 PM
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I'm in. I'm still close to the wedding board that I joined on The Knot when I got married, and two of them are pregnant - I want to be happy for them, but I can't. And my best friend had her baby last week, and I can't bring myself to go see them. I'm just bitter and sad and want my son back. Ugh.
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12-18-2012 at 7:30 AM
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You guys are so wonderful. You're all welcome in my hole (that's what she said).  Love that you guys want to bring chocolate and wine!  Universe decided to smack me a few more times since I posted this.  Got a Christmas card yesterday from a couple we know that is just pictures of them with their I think 6 month old.  Then today I'm watching the news - of all things - and one of the reporters wanted to wish their son a happy 16th birthday.  His name?  You guessed it.  Corbin.  Universe, I shake my fist at you in anger!
In memory of Corbin Scott 10/28/11-12/3/11. Heaven got another angel the night you left this world behind Heaven got a little better the day it took you away from me Missing you tonight, see you again sometime For now I'll close my eyes and dream of heaven tonight I'll love you forever I'll like you for always As long as I'm living My baby you'll be Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers corbinsmommy.blogspot.com Lilypie Pregnancy tickers  
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12-18-2012 at 7:45 AM
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I agree! It is so utterly unfair!
 
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12-18-2012 at 8:26 AM
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fluttergirlmoonchild79:
 Got a Christmas card yesterday from a couple we know that is just pictures of them with their I think 6 month old.  Then today I'm watching the news - of all things - and one of the reporters wanted to wish their son a happy 16th birthday.  His name?  You guessed it.  Corbin.  Universe, I shake my fist at you in anger!

Oh the dreaded Christmas cards.  We have only received one so far, and it was very generic wishing us Love and Joy and a Happy New Year...yeah, right in the recycling bin. 

I have been seeing and hearing little things that remind me of Stella every where, and it's like a little stab in my heart every time.

 
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12-19-2012 at 5:51 AM
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Oh hunny I am sorry you are having a rough time. I am having a hard time watching the people I know who had babies around me (with Gavin) getting to see their kids grow in to little humans. I even ran in to my old boss on Sunday who I haven't seen since Gavin's funeral. Our kids would be about a month apart. When he showed me a picture of her I had to hold back on tears. We were very close through out his SO's pregnancy and after Gavin died we stopped talking. I have three other friend who all have babies Gavin and Blake's ages and man do I envy them.

So I will crawl in the hole with you and hold your hand because I know how bad you are hurting. ((HUGS))

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