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12-17-2012 at 1:36 PM
rpalen29
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is there a board for unemployed bumpies??

I was laid off from my job when I was 6 weeks pregnant. No review of my performance, nothing to indicate that they were unsatisfied with my work. And out of the blue one day I come to work and my hiring manager says i'm laid off, and to pack my things and leave. I was there for 10 months, as an assistant scientist at their R&D company. 

I told someone in confidence a week before that I was pregnant. I'm thinking they fired me because my hiring manager got word that I was pregnant, and if I was, I wouldn't be able to work in the lab, and they would to of hired someone else, and keep me.

I don't have any proof or evidence, and its eating at me. Not just because I feel like they fired me illegally, but their also stating they fired me for a reason, and unemployment is withholding my unemployment benefits. UGH. 

In the meantime, i'm trying to find a job outside of the lab, and I tutor a few high school students part-time to pay for my student loans and groceries.  

Is there any other bumpies who would care to share their stories, or possibly share advice to other fellow bumpies?

 


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12-17-2012 at 1:39 PM
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are you american or canadian?

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12-17-2012 at 1:40 PM
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american

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12-17-2012 at 1:40 PM
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Post on the Working Moms board, there are a few ladies who are well versed in HR and employement laws.  
 
12-17-2012 at 1:42 PM
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TX-Bride:
Post on the Working Moms board, there are a few ladies who are well versed in HR and employement laws.  

thank you! 


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12-17-2012 at 1:47 PM
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ok, don't know much about American laws

I'm canadian and something similar happened to a cousin of mine. 

Her boss knew she was pregnant and they had hired this woman to take over for her while she was on mat  leave. my cousin was in charge of training this woman her position so that she knew what to do when my cousin was away. I forget exactly when, but a few months before she was to start her mat leave, they laid her off. the difference is, she had proof that it was due to her being pregnant. It took YEARS in court to finally get her settlement and it wasn't anything close to what she "should" have gotten (according to her) - she said it was not worth her time going through all that, but was glad she got SOME compensation. She didn't see any money until her son was about 5 yrs old. 

 In canada, when you apply for unemployment (here it's called employment insurance - EI), you boss sends you a ROE (record of employment) with a reason for your departure. If you were fired for no just reason, and through no fault of your own (like, you didn't steal, breach any contracts etc), then you qualify for EI (which is about 55% here)

so what is your boss saying? did she/he just say "we have to let you go and I can't tell you why?" do you get any record of your employment?  I'm sure you must have some sort of labor laws or labor relations board you can go to to file a complaint?


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12-17-2012 at 2:19 PM
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the only conversation I had with my company is the day they terminated me. All she said was "your terminated, pack your things and go" and I asked why, and she said that it just wasn't working out, and it was a consensus of my peers. But, I talked to the people whom I worked with, and they were shocked that I was let go (fake or real reaction, idk)

but i do know they hired someone a few weeks before me, to also work in the lab. Im thinking that person took my place immediately after I left. 

I don't think the usa has the record of employment. I never received anything from them in the mail.  

i'll look into labor laws/relations.

thank you for your advice! 


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12-17-2012 at 2:54 PM
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rpalen29:

the only conversation I had with my company is the day they terminated me. All she said was "your terminated, pack your things and go" and I asked why, and she said that it just wasn't working out, and it was a consensus of my peers. But, I talked to the people whom I worked with, and they were shocked that I was let go (fake or real reaction, idk)

but i do know they hired someone a few weeks before me, to also work in the lab. Im thinking that person took my place immediately after I left. 

I don't think the usa has the record of employment. I never received anything from them in the mail.  

i'll look into labor laws/relations.

thank you for your advice! 

sorry to hear that :( how long were you employed there for?


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12-17-2012 at 3:07 PM
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10 months total; 5 month contract, and 5 months permanent. 

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12-17-2012 at 3:13 PM
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& thanks for your support. I just feel like I should be contributing to making money for this child, and I've had no success in finding a job yet, only a few interviews here and there. It took me 6 months to find this job, and before that i was doing contract jobs and tutoring. I'm trying to do my best with tutoring, and hopefully something comes my way soon. 



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12-18-2012 at 8:52 AM
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I am a scientist too.  I still work in the lab because I work with a recombinant flu vaccine and there are little to no safety issues.  Where do you live? If you want me to take a look at your resume I would be happy too.  Im thinking of you and your family and I hope everything with unemployment works out.

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12-18-2012 at 9:22 AM
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If you live in a right to work state they can fire you for any reason or no erason legaly. I wuold however appeal your unemployment benefits if you qualify.

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12-18-2012 at 10:56 PM
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You can fight about the unemployment.  I used to be a manager and would participate in unemployment hearings via conference call with our company's attorney, a judge and the ex-employee (and their lawyer if they had one--most didn't).  

The ex-employee always lost because we never fired anyone without tons of documentation, corrective action write-ups, suspensions, further training, etc.  Did your employer ever have any of those things with you?  Any sort of documentation they could have?  If not, you probably have a really good chance of winning and getting unemployment.  GL! 

12-18-2012 at 11:03 PM
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SouthSideDrea:
If you live in a right to work state they can fire you for any reason or no erason legaly. I wuold however appeal your unemployment benefits if you qualify.

 

This isn't true. They cannot fire you for being in a protected class: race, religion, sex, sexual orientation, pregnancy, etc... These are federally protected classes.


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12-18-2012 at 11:17 PM
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MotherMayEye:

SouthSideDrea:
If you live in a right to work state they can fire you for any reason or no erason legaly. I wuold however appeal your unemployment benefits if you qualify.

 

This isn't true. They cannot fire you for being in a protected class: race, religion, sex, sexual orientation, pregnancy, etc... These are federally protected classes.



Yeah but they don't have to give a reason so they technically CAN fire you bc of those things.

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12-18-2012 at 11:22 PM
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emolm:
MotherMayEye:

SouthSideDrea:
If you live in a right to work state they can fire you for any reason or no erason legaly. I wuold however appeal your unemployment benefits if you qualify.

 

This isn't true. They cannot fire you for being in a protected class: race, religion, sex, sexual orientation, pregnancy, etc... These are federally protected classes.

Yeah but they don't have to give a reason so they technically CAN fire you bc of those things.

 

If you can prove they fired you for one of these "federally-protected" reasons, it may not matter what other excuse they give. I know firsthand. I was fired for what the record said was insubordination, but I could prove it was retaliation for reporting sexual harassment and my former employer settled out of court.

Besides, that is not what the PP said. She was speaking about state law, it's important to recognize the federal law, too.


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