I agree with looking for your local ican chapter. They will have the best information.
My OB's first question for me was to make sure I wanted to try for a VBAC. So we are going to try and I'm happy about it. It is so unfortunate that more doctors won't allow VBAC. They are perfectly safe and reasonable in most cases. I just don't get it.
There is also a VBAC board here with lots of good information.