Emotions are so complicated. There are days when I wouldn't be upset if the baby comes, and there are days where it's all I can do not to cry in front of her (I actually teared up when she brought the baby after I worked out-luckily I had to put my gym bag down and could turn my back to her).
I like her, and don't want to hurt her feelings. She's surely caught up in the happiness of having a new baby, and it probably hasn't occurred to her that I might feel differently. I've discussed the IF with her briefly in the past, so she's not entirely clueless, but I doubt she really remembers the convo in detail. If it were someone I didn't like, I'd just bark at her about how busy I am and keep right on trucking.
I like the onions suggestion lol. I guess I'll try to avoid her rather than say something about it to her.