Simmer down, Madasm. It's like you are just chomping for a brawl and are trying to twist anything you can to have a reason to throw the first punch.
A&E, I missed the part where you mentioned not having a loss. My bad on that one. And it just dawned on me who you are, I knew your name from somewhere and it's like a lightbulb just went off. How dumb of me.
OP and Sarah, again, I'm sorry that you are having some bad days. I hope that you are able to work through everything and feel better soon.
And everyone else, untwist the panties and hug it out.