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12-18-2012 at 4:54 PM
Nickyboe
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Ppd?

hi ladies I has ppd on my ds 4 years ago , I was afraid of hurting him purposely,I never ever acted on them thoughts.I was only 21 didn't know it was ppd,I eventually told my doc about the thoughts and I got help ! I didn't need antidepressants tho well I had my dd 3 weeks ago the whole way through my pregnancy I taught of the ppd with my son now she is here half of me is waiting for it to hit again.I have had these thoughts again but I'm not sure if its ppd or just paranoia ?
 
12-18-2012 at 5:39 PM
kbruington
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Regardless of whether they are true thoughts or just paranoia, I'd call your doctor right away. Better to nip this in the bud before it gets the best of you. Good luck and hang in there. You aren't alone.

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12-19-2012 at 4:05 PM
june10-06
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I was really nervous about the mood changes the first few weeks after baby. I remember how hard it was with ds1! The more you talk about it the better so talk to your doc, SO, and any family and friends who will listen. Anxiety is really common too even tho most people talk about ppd. In my mind, your thoughts about not wanting to hurt your LO are anxieties about her safety, but talk it through with your doc or someone else who knows you so the can give advice. GL!

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12-19-2012 at 6:11 PM
Shema N
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I'm wondering if I have PPD although I don't have thoughts of harming my baby - it's the opposite - I'm obsessed with his well-being and have constant fears about him getting sick/constipated etc. I also have strong thoughts of self-loathing/hatred b/c I've failed at breastfeeding and I feel like I've failed my LO. I cry on and off, especially when I'm feeding LO and I feel like I have to work so hard to hide it. 

Would this be PPD or something else? Anxiety? My OB is aware that I've been depressed but so far has not suggested that I seek any help. I will probably bring it up again when I see him to see if he suggests I see someone.

 
12-19-2012 at 8:45 PM
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Shema I would also talk to doc & if you want help, you may have to ask him for it. I was surprised my doc didn't even bring up depression or anxiety at my 6 week follow up. It sounds like some anxiety and depression mixed but the diagnosis really depends on how many weeks your LO is...typical baby blues start to get better 2-4 weeks after baby. If its longer than 4 weeks it may be ppd and meds or therapy can help. Getting sleep, exercise, talking to others, and getting out of house help a lot. And give your self a break on breast feeding! There are so many posts about this so you are not alone, but don't beat yourself up about it! GL!

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