Hmm... I would overlook the 1st appt, kind of a random question to ask your doctor about FB announcement. If I was the doctor I would be thinking - seriously? The 2nd appt just sounds awkward and I would definitely be upset about it to.
I hated my ob at first, but as I progressed he became more and more attentive. Honestly, I don't think there is much they can do for us so early on. Even if a woman is bleeding or anything else, at this point they can't do anything to really help. I know we think our questions are important but they see the same questions over and over, and the reality is sometimes there is no answer. Pregnancy is unpredictable and can suck, sometimes they can help other times we just have to live with it.
Some women start talking about delivery in their first tri, my dr brushed me off until well into my third then he answered every question in minute detail. And in hindsight I was glad we dealt with it later on rather than earlier because I probably would have asked the same questions over and over. There really was no point in being concerned about delivery during first and second tri.
I know some people will say definitely change, but I guess I would take with a grain of salt. I know I didn't have many options in my town and it all worked out in the end.