Wtf mom, brother, and brother's girlfriend?
We stay at my mom's house one night a year. Normally, we get my brother's room because it doubles as the guest room. This year, we have to sleep on the air mattress in the basement because because brother an girlfriend threw a fit about having to give up his room. I'm pissed because DH and I were never allowed to sleep together at my parents before we were married, ever. And now we have to give up having our own private space so two college aged kids can have sex at my parents house.
Ok, I totally get that it sucks sleeping on an air matress but it's your brother's room, no? He's home from
College and it's his room.
How do you not have a private space when you have the basement? Does the basement not have a door?
Why do you need "privacy"? And why shouldn't your brother have his? Besides the whole "married" and boy/ girl hypocrite thing. Are you going to be having sex at your Mom's house, as well?