I am doing GREAT! I'm taking the advice of everyone here and not engaging. Or trying. This morning he tried to start up the "why are we getting divorced" conversation but I promptly ended it.
He's getting the message. I think.
Got the divorce notification papers. March 3rd, judge should sign and make it final.
I am happy. There's no drama. I have a quiet, peaceful, organized, FREE life that I am loving. I'm not doing anything extraordinary, but it's nice not having the burden of H and all that goes with it.
DD is also much happier. And that makes me very happy.