When we spoke to our lawyer this afternoon, he said that she had contacted the person who "runs" the visitations. That she had spoken to her yesterday about this and that she was aware that my husband was suppose to pick up their daughter today at 2. He said that even though it seems like nothing is being done. That actually a whole lot is going on. Since she contacted Court officials that everything she said is "on record" nbsp;and not just our word against hers.That there is a lot going on "behind scenes." and that she is building her own case fir when we do have a trail date set. I honestly do not understand how a mother could do this to their child.
Honestly, even as a BM, I have no idea how a mother could act like this either. It's HARD to give up time with your kids, especially during Christmas, but that is do reason to completely alienate the other parent. The only person she is really hurting here is her own daughter. Poor kid is probably confused.
On another note, do you think BM may be in an abusive/controlling relationship? The whole thing about her BF only speaking to you guys kind of struck me as maybe he doesn't want her talking to/around your H? I may be completely off base here.