Mine is a saying anything...because I just need to get this crap off my chest.
There's a group of 5-6 couples that we used to hang out with all the time. We've all had our ups and downs and moments of being closer to one couple at one point in time. Some things happened a few years ago and we had a pretty big falling out with one of the couples. But we mostly kept it civil and always try to include everyone when we do something.
Well, the couple we had a falling out with is BFF's with another couple that is in the group...or so they pretent. One of the girls has confided in me about her supposed BFF and talks badly about her all the time. But when they are together they are besties. She has even gone to the extent of saying that she wishes she had asked DH and I to be in their wedding vice the other couple that are their "BFF's."
All of this is so High School drama stuff and I'm just over it. Everyone talks about each other behind each other's backs, they are flaky and just not good friends. But we all keep pretending that we are and always feel this obligation to include everyone when we do something.
Back in September these were the two girls who were going to throw a joint birthday party for me but then backed out the day before the party and then ended up having a more "exclusive" party. I really haven't talked to them much since then with the exception of a few group events.
So, what I'm getting down to is that I really, really want to just cut these two particular couples from my life. They just cause me stress and anger. I want to remove them from Facebook so that they can't check up on me and vice versa. I don't want to be obligated to be acquantances with them anymore.
But I hate confrontation and I don't want to cause more drama...and I'm part chicken. I just don't know how to go about removing them from my life without drama.
TL:DR...but I feel a little better.