This may sound a little crazy, but it's just what makes me tick I guess. Since we don't have difficulty getting and staying pregnant, if we hadn't pursued adoption, I'd probably be in my third trimester with our second child (if not giving birth AS WE SPEAK!).
And, man, I am so glad to not be bringing a newborn into this house. DS is amazing, but he's so curious and high energy and "insistent" and he's not even a little bit gentle (even when he means to be). I'm so glad our next child will be sturdier than a newborn, and will probably be old enough for them to play together. I know it could blow up in our faces, but I love that our next child will have someone his/her age to relate to (when we may be scary).
But we have considered embryo adoption if Uganda's regulations change and we're unable to adopt there. I'm just excited about our path; I think that's the kicker, you know? There are positives and negatives about every choice; at the end of the day, you've got to go with what your heart tugs at you to do.
So cheesy, that is.