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12-21-2012 at 11:00 AM
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D & C Update

I saw someone posted below wishing us Friday D&C people well.. Thought I'd update.

I just got home from mine. The waiting was the worst part. But once I got there, they gave me an IV of fluids and a nice anxiety drug. I was SO nervous about being knocked out. The anxiety drug was great but wore off fast - well before it was time to go in for the procedure.

I went back, into a huge scary room, and they strapped me to a table. I was pretty nervous, but within 30 seconds I was out. Next thing I know I was waking up (my first two things I said - "I dreamt about Christmas" and "Can I please sleep some more"). Some moderate cramps, but they gave me a percocet and sent me on my way. The cramps are mostly gone for now, but every time I pee there's a good amount of blood. Small amounts of nausea, and I'm starving but can't eat anything significant for a few more hours. 

I'm actually feeling ok physically - not terribly weak. But taking it easy today. Pelvic rest for 2 weeks, then a follow-up exam. Emotionally - I'm just numb at this point. The two days of waiting was worse than the actual procedure. It still hasn't quite sunk in that I'm not pregnant anymore, but it'll come...

For the rest of you with your surgery today- how are you doing? I suffer from severe anxiety, and I can tell you all honestly, there's nothing to worry about. Hope all goes well for you too 


BFP #1: 11.21.12; (EDD 7.30.13); missed M/C 12.21.12 @ 8w4d
BFP #2: 4.12.13; (EDD 12.28.13) ; missed M/C 5.20.12 @ 8w2d 
12-21-2012 at 11:07 AM
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So glad it went well for you. I remember the worry and anticipation being the hardest part for me too. Get some rest and focus on healing.

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BFP with #1 11/18/2011 with twins; missed m/c at 8weeks3days; d&c 1/19/2012; myomectomy to remove 18cm+,10cm & 5cm fibroids 4/2012; TTC again 7/2012; BFP #2 11/13/2012 with twins-again; missed m/c at 7weeks

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12-21-2012 at 8:14 PM
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I'm so glad your procedure went well and you are doing OK. You are right the worst part was the waiting. Sending you ((( HUGS! ))) 

My procedure went really well also. I actually woke up this morning with really severe cramps and was like omg, is this happening? Am I having a miscarriage? But I had hardly any spotting. After a few hours the cramping stopped.

The worst part of the whole thing was getting my blood drawn and the IV put in. I have really shallow veins and am terrified of needles. The last time I was put under I was like 16 to get my wisdom teeth out so the whole thing scared me. 

My nurses were fantastic. They got 3 nurses around me to make sure they got the right vein on the first try then covered it up with a blanket so I didn't have to look at it. Even though I was crying the whole time they said not to worry its perfectly normal and its OK to be scared. 

My doctor was so wonderful and compassionate. He came over and took my hand and said its a horrible thing, and that I could cry all I wanted and that he was going to take great care of me. He said he hates having to do these surgeries, but it is very common and that I would be in and out as quick as possible. He said there is absolutely nothing I did that would cause this to happen.

He told me my surgery had to get pushed back a bit because a woman came in that was bleeding heavily and wanted to make sure she was taken care of first (I actually think she was having a miscarriage, but not sure).

I was then taken back to the surgery room which was very scary and then the anesthetist told me he was first going to give me some drugs to make me that "felt like I had a few cocktails" and he had me move over to the surgery bed. The nurse introduced herself and she said I'm just going to put this strap around you in case I decided to roll around in my sleep. That was the last thing I remember before waking up in recovery when a nurse asked me how I was doing. 

When I woke up I felt like I had the best sleep of my life. I apparently woke up quickly because I skipped a section where they put people coming out of anesthesia and right into recovery. I think I was up and walking around in 40 minutes.  I don't have any cramping or pain. Not taking any medication. Just a little light spotting. I actually don't feel emotional at all and feel guilty about it. I think just having this closure is just what I needed.

Although it was very scary, the entire procedure was painless and the right option for me.

Again, glad you are doing Ok, keep us posted. 


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12-21-2012 at 9:20 PM
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jenkellen:

I'm so glad your procedure went well and you are doing OK. You are right the worst part was the waiting. Sending you ((( HUGS! ))) 

My procedure went really well also. I actually woke up this morning with really severe cramps and was like omg, is this happening? Am I having a miscarriage? But I had hardly any spotting. After a few hours the cramping stopped.

The worst part of the whole thing was getting my blood drawn and the IV put in. I have really shallow veins and am terrified of needles. The last time I was put under I was like 16 to get my wisdom teeth out so the whole thing scared me. 

My nurses were fantastic. They got 3 nurses around me to make sure they got the right vein on the first try then covered it up with a blanket so I didn't have to look at it. Even though I was crying the whole time they said not to worry its perfectly normal and its OK to be scared. 

My doctor was so wonderful and compassionate. He came over and took my hand and said its a horrible thing, and that I could cry all I wanted and that he was going to take great care of me. He said he hates having to do these surgeries, but it is very common and that I would be in and out as quick as possible. He said there is absolutely nothing I did that would cause this to happen.

He told me my surgery had to get pushed back a bit because a woman came in that was bleeding heavily and wanted to make sure she was taken care of first (I actually think she was having a miscarriage, but not sure).

I was then taken back to the surgery room which was very scary and then the anesthetist told me he was first going to give me some drugs to make me that "felt like I had a few cocktails" and he had me move over to the surgery bed. The nurse introduced herself and she said I'm just going to put this strap around you in case I decided to roll around in my sleep. That was the last thing I remember before waking up in recovery when a nurse asked me how I was doing. 

When I woke up I felt like I had the best sleep of my life. I apparently woke up quickly because I skipped a section where they put people coming out of anesthesia and right into recovery. I think I was up and walking around in 40 minutes.  I don't have any cramping or pain. Not taking any medication. Just a little light spotting. I actually don't feel emotional at all and feel guilty about it. I think just having this closure is just what I needed.

Although it was very scary, the entire procedure was painless and the right option for me.

Again, glad you are doing Ok, keep us posted. 

 

I'm really glad you said you're not too emotional. I read about how everyone else has struggled, and of course the first day I cried all day and then on and off all yesterday, but now nothing. Numb, or just accepted it already? I also feel guilty. But I think some people just cope differently. I still have brief moments where I get upset, but at this point I have no choice but to accept it. 

Hope your recovery goes well too! 


BFP #1: 11.21.12; (EDD 7.30.13); missed M/C 12.21.12 @ 8w4d
BFP #2: 4.12.13; (EDD 12.28.13) ; missed M/C 5.20.12 @ 8w2d 
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