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12-21-2012 at 11:39 AM
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This Trimester has me like a horny little male dog, I wanna Have sex with my babys daddy almost every minute of the day... I feel like a creeper lol. Is this normal? I dont wanna be the only one like this lmao Im sure he likes it  but still... Also is the baby alright i get worried because okay this may be TMI but we have like rough sex and long sex have no pains except normal ow my vagina hurts after... should i slow down or am i okay 
 
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12-21-2012 at 11:43 AM
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Um... have you intro-d on this board before? Normally, it's customary to introduce yourself, although I suppose this is an interesting way to do it!

It's normal, if your vagina hurts, try some lube. 
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12-21-2012 at 11:43 AM
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As long as you aren't hurting or bleeding baby should be fine. If you are hurting then tone it down a notch.

Some women have libido that sky rockets and some have their libido die. It can be anything in between.  
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12-21-2012 at 11:57 AM
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12-21-2012 at 12:07 PM
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12-21-2012 at 12:24 PM
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Enjoy the libido while you have it! It may die down. Have as much sex as you want until it hurts or is uncomfortable. 

 

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12-21-2012 at 12:28 PM
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Enjoy the libido while you have it! It may die down. Have as much sex as you want until it hurts or is uncomfortable. 

 

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12-21-2012 at 12:48 PM
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mystererae:

Um... have you intro-d on this board before?  

Phew, thank god the board police are here to remind everyone of the rules Confused

Guess I'll go back to my own board before you tell me I don't belong here......

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12-21-2012 at 12:50 PM
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Lmao. You don't need to do an intro post first.

You can't hurt the baby by having sex. It's nice and cushioned in there. :) 

 
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12-21-2012 at 1:05 PM
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Megroons:
mystererae:

Um... have you intro-d on this board before?&nbsp;&nbsp;



Phew, thank god the board police are here to remind everyone of the rules Confused


Guess I'll go back to my own board before you tell me I don't belong here......


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12-21-2012 at 1:31 PM
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homebird:
Lmao. You don't need to do an intro post first.You can't hurt the baby by having sex. It's nice and cushioned in there. :nbsp;nbsp;
Don't leave please. They did the same thing to me. You asked a question and other woman are here to answer regardless of an introduction or not. You're really close to me in the pregnancy so I am in the same boat!! My man is the one who has most of the libido but enjoy it while it lasts! If it hurts... Take a break.
 
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12-21-2012 at 1:40 PM
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You're right PPs, that was unnecessary of me. I just looked at her post history and got confused/irritated because she's created 5 posts today alone demanding help/support/info but hasn't intro-d anywhere. There's been a lot of animosity toward young mothers recently so I thought I would head off another huge board fight by encouraging her to intro so as to conform to the board norms, but I should have done so more kindly or not at all :)
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12-21-2012 at 1:43 PM
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You can't have sex in the first tri. If you are having a girl, you might get her pregnant.
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12-21-2012 at 1:58 PM
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mystererae:
You're right PPs, that was unnecessary of me. I should have done so more kindly or not at all :
I understand being a normal on the posts but is introductions necessary? We are all mothers. I love this place because there are no formality just mother support other mothers with their pending questions about what they're going through.
 
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12-21-2012 at 1:58 PM
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mystererae:
You're right PPs, that was unnecessary of me. I just looked at her post history and got confused/irritated because she's created 5 posts today alone demanding help/support/info but hasn't intro-d anywhere. There's been a lot of animosity toward young mothers recently so I thought I would head off another huge board fight by encouraging her to intro so as to conform to the board norms, but I should have done so more kindly or not at all :)

I thought the point of this board was to offer help/support/info but I guess I am a little naive...

OP:  No need to do an intro on the tri boards...we are all just stopping by 
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12-21-2012 at 2:09 PM
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gemini2005:

I thought the point of this board was to offer help/support/info but I guess I am a little naive...

OP:  No need to do an intro on the tri boards...we are all just stopping by 

I agree! I guess I think it's a little offensive when someone creates 5 posts within a span of a few hours with her own questions/concerns, and responds to only 1 from another poster. If we all treated the boards this way, this would be a really sad place. I am all for offering support/help/info and also for asking for it, but would a more balanced approach be so bad?
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12-21-2012 at 2:57 PM
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Wow I'm surprised actually. I'm so flippin sick that sex is the last thing on my mind! I'm going to say I might be a lil concerned about the rough factor.... How rough we talking? Ha! Maybe ask your doctor? Good luck
 
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12-21-2012 at 3:17 PM
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mystererae:
gemini2005:

I thought the point of this board was to offer help/support/info but I guess I am a little naive...

OP:  No need to do an intro on the tri boards...we are all just stopping by 

I agree! I guess I think it's a little offensive when someone creates 5 posts within a span of a few hours with her own questions/concerns, and responds to only 1 from another poster. If we all treated the boards this way, this would be a really sad place. I am all for offering support/help/info and also for asking for it, but would a more balanced approach be so bad?

Well I guess people like me kind of balance it out.  I rarely post anything but respond to posts pretty frequently.  I'm shy I guess ha! Balance would be better I agree.  
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12-21-2012 at 8:39 PM
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I wish I had a sex drive like that right now ..... but I don't.  I just want to sleep.  And be a slug.  I'm hoping I'll get some horn dog tendencies soon.
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12-22-2012 at 1:10 PM
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I worry about this too all the time... but everything I've ready says its fine!
 
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12-23-2012 at 2:20 AM
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Two words...Enjoy it! ;) I would come home from work and fall asleep on the couch. It seemed I could never get enough sleep. My husband would wake me up to eat, and then wake me up to go to bed lol. Poor guy!!!

I understand you are worried about your little one, but that little nugget is all protected :)

Good luck on your pregnancy!!!!

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01-09-2013 at 10:27 AM
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Thank You For Sticking Up For Me .. I Honestly Dont Even Have Time To Involve myself with that mess... because she is just straight talking Excuse my language TALKING ***. has she once answered my question NOOO !! i wouldnt value her opinion anyways nor do . i could careless. I didnt know there was Rules on how to go about on here . .
 
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