Thanks everyone... LauraBeth; no worries - after last night, I don't think much more can get to me!
***And on a side note.. You'd think this idiot of a b*itch would think "OMG maybe WE'RE going to have to go thru this too given the diagnosis". And wouldn't you think, even though we have our differences, she would have thought "wow, nice of him to come and explain things so maybe it can help us". OMG I WANT TO FREAKING SCREAM.
Literally never seeing these people again. I want to spit in their faces. Ugh now I sound like a jerk but whatever.