The women here are not evil. They are actually some super duper nice people, but even super duper nice people take offense of having some one flaunt their success in your face when you have never even introduced yourself. Its like walking up to a stranger on the street and telling them everything you just told us. Trust me, the women on this site have done everything, you didn't post a success story you post a gloating commentary. As you have you BFP this is not the forum for you, you do need to go elsewhere, check out august 2013.
Remeber your online actions should mirror how you would interact in person, if barging into places and making large announcements about yourself to strangers is how you act...well good luck to you, but I doubt its ever recieved well.