Thank you guys so much. And thanks for confirming that MIL's comment was ridiculous. I am in a bit of a poor me mode, and I need to snap out of it. I truly thought it would be a bit easier.
DCW, you're awesome! Definitely wish I had the gonads to say that. Haha
I hope everyone is warm and eating lots of holiday treats this eve.
Thank you again
I have had to rein in my inner btch tonight and behave. Big bummer. Plus, I don't drink so my sleepiness is causing a looser tongue than is allowed. Oops!