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12-24-2012 at 10:10 PM
lisajay09
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Drunkle Dave

Ok, so, SIL's DH is a Superbad alcoholic. She's not too far behind him. Tonight we were out at MIL's for Xmas eve dinner and, as expected, BIL is shiit faced. Normally, I could care less, because I could care less about him, but tonight...ooooh, tonight...I could have strangled him. He kept shouting at DS, "what the f", over and over and over. He has broken record syndrome when he's trashed. Then at one point he called DS a bastard and at another point he told my 14 month old DD to go to hell. Really??? You're THAT fuckked up that you don't realize your shouting profanity at babies?? SIL just tried to joke it off and told him to shut up. He didn't. She didn't make him. DH told him to cool it and he still continued. I wanted to tear his blurry eyes out but there is a long history of drama with the ILs and I just wanted to go home rather than start WWXIV with them...again. I got so upset, I just told DH that we needed to leave. And we did. I will never, ever be in the same room with that POS.
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12-24-2012 at 10:22 PM
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I'm so sorry, that is awful.  I wouldn't want to be around him again either. 
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12-24-2012 at 10:34 PM
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Wow. That's messed up! A drunk IL is one thing, whatever. But shouting profanities at my children totally draws a line. That's just wrong. I'm sorry you had to deal with that!
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12-24-2012 at 11:31 PM
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What a jerk! I would have left too and I would never bring my kids around him again. Blek! I hope the rest of your Christmas celebration is much merrier.
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12-25-2012 at 1:35 AM
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YOu are a much better person than I. I would have ripped him a new azzhole. And the ILs could have decided if they wanted to take my side, aka the side of their grand kids, or not seeing those kids again any time soon. 

Yelling at kids that age? Yeah, right. Booze face, you are lucky if I do not take your balls and wear them as a belt buckle from now on. 
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12-25-2012 at 8:06 AM
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Oh my! Thats not acceptable.
Im with nita you are a better person than me. I wouldnt care who would be mad at me , the moment you insult my child is the moment you poked a bear.

What a tool
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12-25-2012 at 9:06 AM
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that is awful but I have to laugh a little at telling a 14 month old to go to hell. sounds like they need to be cut our of your life! I'm sorry for the drama :(
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12-25-2012 at 9:22 AM
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aliciaroset:
that is awful but I have to laugh a little at telling a 14 month old to go to hell. sounds like they need to be cut our of your life! I'm sorry for the drama :

I know! Like, what could he have possibly done? It's ridiculous. He literally just turned, looked at her and said, "go to hell Brenna". Out of no where. Lunatic.
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12-25-2012 at 9:24 AM
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I would have stuck out my leg for him to trip and fall on his face or just drop kicked his azz to the floor.  I definitely would consider cutting them out of your lives for a while.  It doesn't sound like you will be missing much. 

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12-25-2012 at 9:25 PM
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What an azzhat... seriously. I can't stand people like that. Kudos to you for being calm and collective. I'm not sure I could have contained my self from ripping his eyes out! 
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12-26-2012 at 7:34 AM
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kagl08:
Wow. That's messed up! A drunk IL is one thing, whatever. But shouting profanities at my children totally draws a line. That's just wrong. I'm sorry you had to deal with that!

This!  I'm so sorry he ruined your get together but I'm glad you all left.  What a jerk!
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12-26-2012 at 9:48 AM
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You did the right thing.  Leaving is all you can do.  No sense trying to reason with someone beyond reason.

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Sad for them and their lives.  Keep your distance for sure.  I'm sure no one will blame you, except the drunks themselves.

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