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12-25-2012 at 5:00 PM
mattsgirl2...
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Positives then a negative..any hope? *UPDATE*

Hi ladies. I posted a re-intro on Sunday after getting a few faint positives at 10 dpo on FRER's. I POAS stick this morning with my last FRER with FMU to see if my line got darker and to my surprise it was a BFN.  Is there any hope or do you think this is another loss? Any success stories? I'm so heartbroken. This will be my 3rd loss this year.

Update:  My hcg level is only at 7. My OB says it's another, early miscarriage. Just waiting for the physical part to start...which should be within the next few days. I'm already cramping and what little symptoms I have are about gone. I stopped my progesterone yesterday. It was wonderful being a part of this board again...even for a short time.   Hoping to join you all again soon...and hopefully next time will be for a full 9 months! Wishing you all a very H&H 9 months!


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12-25-2012 at 5:13 PM
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I can't tell you what's going on for you, but I know for me, my lines got lighter and I even had a BFN as well. Yet my HCG levels continued to rise. I can't explain it, but other ladies have posted similar stories on here too. I wish you the best of luck!

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12-25-2012 at 7:19 PM
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I have had it go both ways ..my 3rd miscarriage I had a positive on a digital and the next day was negative and my beta was 6 and I miscarried later that week....This pregnancy I had a positive on a FRER and wondfo and negative on digital all in the same day ..had my beta drawn that morning and it was 7..the next day the digital was positive..good luck {{HUGS}}}

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12-26-2012 at 6:04 AM
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How frustrating!  I know tests can be wacky.  I never actually got a negative with this pregnancy but the line would be lighter some days and darker other days.  Try not to drive yourself crazy POAS.  I know it's really tempting, like constant reassurance, but it made me lose it when the lines weren't dark enough or didn't appear quickly enough.  Good luck!

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12-26-2012 at 8:41 AM
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So, there is definitely hope,  I know that people say to stop peeing on sticks because the dyes and sensitivity are different. I have had it go both ways.  I got pregnant in March and of course I was super excited, but super naive and told my entire family asap.  Within 2 weeks, I lost my symptoms and tested negative on a test.  I was baffled, a few days later I started spotting, which progressed to bleeding, and I naturally miscarried.

The Dr said we could continue trying because I was so early.  I got pregnant the very next month, with no period in between.  I tested on a first response, and a dollar store test, both BFP.  The next day I tested on a Digital, BFN.  I thought for sure that is was over.  Like a psycho, I ran out and bought a ton of tests, and pee'd.... a lot... I mean a whole lot, it was crazy.  Within a few days I was getting consistant positives on every test! Here I am almost 39 weeks pregnant!

So I know the first story is negative, and depressing.  But I wanted to be honest, and I hope your situation is like my second story.

Good luck, lots of T&P!


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12-26-2012 at 9:58 AM
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I'm so sorry you got a BFN. I don't have any advice but just wanted you to know I was thinking of you and keeping everything crossed that it's just a fluke. Xoxoxo

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12-26-2012 at 1:18 PM
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Jellybean902:
I can't tell you what's going on for you, but I know for me, my lines got lighter and I even had a BFN as well. Yet my HCG levels continued to rise. I can't explain it, but other ladies have posted similar stories on here too. I wish you the best of luck!

I've heard of another success like this as well, but it can go either way.  Fx you are on the success side


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12-26-2012 at 7:50 PM
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mattsgirl2004:
Hi ladies. I posted a re-intro on Sunday after getting a few faint positives at 10 dpo on FRER's. I POAS stick this morning with my last FRER with FMU to see if my line got darker and to my surprise it was a BFN.  Is there any hope or do you think this is another loss? Any success stories? I'm so heartbroken. This will be my 3rd loss this year.

Update:  My hcg level is only at 7. My OB says it's another, early miscarriage. Just waiting for the physical part to start...which should be within the next few days. I'm already cramping and what little symptoms I have are about gone. I stopped my progesterone yesterday. It was wonderful being a part of this board again...even for a short time.   Hoping to join you all again soon...and hopefully next time will be for a full 9 months! Wishing you all a very H&H 9 months!
 

Oh honey :( :( I am so so sorry :(  I know the emotional rollercoaster you must be on and it totally just sucks.  Sending you lots of thoughts and prayers for healing.  Please, please PM me if you need anything or just want an ear to listen.  Tons of hugs to you lady.


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12-26-2012 at 10:14 PM
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Oh no, I'm so sorry. It just isn't fair. Sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way.


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12-26-2012 at 11:04 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this. Hope to see you back here as soon as you're ready. ((hugs))



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12-27-2012 at 11:07 AM
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((hugs)) I'm sorry

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