Oh, my feelings would be hurt too. I bet my hubby would have done the same thing though, he knows that when I'm working nights my sleep is sacred so waking me up better be for an emergency. Be bummed, but don't hold onto it for too long, I'm sure they thought they were doing the right thing.
I agree with this. He screwed up, but I can sort of understand him not wanting to wake you since, #1: you worked a 12 hour shift overnight, #2: he thought you knew the plans, and #3: you all had celebrated together the night before.
Im not saying he made the right choice, but it doesn't sound like he was trying to be a jerk. It sounds like he just made a bonehead move.
Still though, I'm sorry that happened. :(