WTF SIL - You know we're IF (mistake on my part - stupid beer-mouth), so you make it a job to point out that my MIL is ready for 'more grandkids around' and since I'm unable to fulfill her need, you might just get KU for 'more attention' (she actually said this). You specifically told me this summer you wished you would have had your tubes-tied after your second because:
1) Your two kids were monsters and nearly birth-control alone and you NEVER wanted another because you don't want to ruin your size zero body ever again and
2) You'd already expressed your 'right to chose' six times and didn't know if you wanted to go there again
I'm all for your right to chose, but why tell me that numerous times (AFTER knowing our IF struggle) and insist that you'd rather shoot yourself instead of having another child... but then blame me for my MIL not having another grandchild and making numerous hints all night about having another child (including mentioning that her DH wouldn't let her get a spanx shirt because she's just going to get fat with a baby again soon probably)?
I'd be exstatic for another nephew, but she's made it clear time and again that she has NO interest in another child and that she's driven nuts by the ones she already has. She's one of those that if she had the money, they'd be raised by nannies. She doesn't even acknowledge them when we're at the family get-togethers and just uses them as leverage with MIL.
She once refused to let MIL see the kids for 3 months because she (MIL) took one of the two cookies SIL gave to the youngest (who BIL and SIL both favor because he's athletic and not artistic and quiet like their older son) and gave one to the older son (so they each had one cookie). SIL told her she was 'favoring' the older one (when really she was just balancing the clear favoritism by the BIL/SIL) and refused to let her see them. She only relented because she wanted her free daily babysitter back.