I guess my unpopular opinion is that a husband should want to spend time with his wife, even if that means spending a little less time with his parent and siblings.
So here's the deal: The only days that I got off work for Christmas were Monday and Tuesday. My husband worked last Friday and now he's off until Jan 2nd. My family lives about a three hour drive from our home and his family is a six hour drive from our home. We decided that since I need to be back home so much sooner than he does, we'd each go visit our respective families and then meet back up at home sometime before New Year's Eve. So I'm back at home, going to work, doing chores around the house, etc. He's hanging out in his hometown shopping, watching movies, and not planning to come back to the real world until Saturday. I love him and I miss him and I wish he would just come home already, but I don't think I should tell him that because it will sound whiny and selfish.