How many can I do?! Lol
I'll start with most annoying, I have a close friend whose Ku. Great, I'm happy for her bla bla. Well since the MOMENT she found out it constant complaining, and yes she wanted to be pregnant really bad, this is her 4th.but I'm not exaggerating. She's only 9 weeks and she was like oh my god I'm getting a bump already, like it was a bad thing. And she's already saying how sick she is and can't wait to not be pregnant. She complains about how dizzy she is and how fat shes getting and how much she tired and how she ccant look at meat. Its ALL the time. I wouldn't mind the occasional I'm nauses. She is milking it. And she keeps saying when will you get pregnant again, they knew we we're talking about trying, mistake!!!!
I don't like it when I hear pregnant women complaning about being pregnant. Don't they know some women want to be pregnant right now?! Ugh! I totally agree with it being a mistake letting people know you are trying. My DH and I made this mistake and now every other day (it seems) someone is nagging and asking, "Are you pregnant yet?" Like if I have a choice every month to get pregnant or not... lol wth?
I agree that I dislike hearing pregnant women complain, however, some pregnancies are really tough. Some of my friends have had severe m/s, others had pretty traumatic 3rd Trimester experiences. One in particular had seizures and severe hip issues until after her son was born, all of her "issues" were pregnancy related. It got to the point where she literally could not be left alone so she spent all week at her parents' house, then would come back to her home with her husband on the weekends.
But, I see the other side too where people totally milk it and complain about everything all the time. I wouldn't be able to listen to that. @leahaustin, I've found making people uncomfortable works best with the "are you pregnant yet" questions. At first, I appeased people - now I'm just blunt and it usually shuts them up to the point they don't ask anymore :)