People shouldn't have to lurke to better learn how to walk on eggshells for those who are overly sensitive and lack tact. There is a snarky and TTTC board...just saying.
Overly sensitive? We're blunt and give honest advice rather than just telling people what they want to hear. And, when we get really annoyed with people posting the same things over and over again, we get snarky. You yourself just admitted that you can see how frustrating it gets.
Also, if you really dislike the climate of this board, why are you here? I'll never understand the people who complain, but keep right on posting here anyway.