My husband is the same way. He keeps telling me whatever you want to do is fine. Men just really are not that into it. I am hoping that he will be wonderful once the baby comes around. My really good girlfriend bought him the book below. It is a "baby manual" but for men. It talks about everything like feeding etc but is geared for a man. Just the illustrations have made him interested in the book. They say things sarcastically. He has only read the first section and last night was rubbing my stomach, which was a SHOCK to me. Maybe this book will help him get prepared to be a Dad. I realized that it is my husband's fear that he will suck at being a dad, so I have just been trying to encourage him and not go into too many details about the nursery/registry. I will make those decisions on my own LOL and get everything I want.
Here is the book: (she found it on Amazon) The
Baby Owner's Manual: Operating Instructions, Trouble-Shooting Tips, and Advice
on First-Year Maintenance