omgoodness...no one is bashing...I do wish ya'll the best of luck...i will go somewhere else since seeing i am not wanted here. I can't make everyone happy and ya'll are suppose to be support and/or informative. If there is suppose to be "proper" etiquette...maybe ppl should point it out if there is a forum for it or make one...this is public forum and ppl tell strangers things on here everyday, there are new people on here everyday and im being bashed for giving news to let it out because i can not yet? WOW...again good luck and take care and may your new year bring better happiness....
Here's the thing, you have been given pretty good advice and instead of taking it you are acting like a drama queen.
When you get to a new board, read the stickies at the top (in the green squares) or here's an even better idea, go to the New to the Bump board and start there. Lurk and get to know the vibe of the board before you start posting so you don't make an a$$ out of yourself. Stop posting this dramatic crap. Lay low and respond to posts where you feel like you can be helpful. There are those of us who are here simply for entertainment. Not everyone is here for the same reasons. I'm not saying you can't make friends here, obviously you can, but support is a two way street and you kind of have to be here a while and get to know people. You wouldn't walk up to a complete stranger and expect her to be your support system just because she's pregnant, would you? I certainly hope not.