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01-02-2013 at 7:29 AM
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Insecure feelings

During the first trimester I was pretty insecure when it came to my DH, and that feeling has come back full force now that I'm in the third trimester. I've been pretty paranoid that he's going to leave me or cheat or something. The thing is, I know he never would. He's just not that type of guy for one thing, and he shows me on a regular basis that he's happy with our marriage and doesn't want anyone else. He's been pretty patient with me thankfully and just thinks I'm crazy. lol

Has anyone else had these feelings during pregnancy? 
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01-02-2013 at 7:31 AM
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I go through this with every pregnancy.  Just add it in with the crazy the hormones bring : )


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01-02-2013 at 7:52 AM
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I haven't necessarily had those exact thoughts, but I have had the "overreacting" thoughts about a few things. I try to chalk it up as hormones! Lol.
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01-02-2013 at 8:01 AM
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I haven't had these thoughts but I have had similiar. During this pregnancy I want DH with me ALL of the time. And that is so not like me so it makes me feel crazy. I get home with DS about and hour before DH arrives and sometimes I will just dread going home. And I have no idea why. I know it is pregnancy hormones and I am ready for that to bed one.

Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. Then he can understand if you do some off the wall things.

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01-02-2013 at 9:39 AM
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I've talked to him about my feelings and he normally laughs and calls me crazy. He's understanding thankfully and knows this is so not like me. Not to say he hasn't been annoyed or had his feelings hurt. That's definitely happened. But these hormones are driving me crazy!
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I had that fear earlier in pregnancy, but it was totally irrational. 
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01-02-2013 at 11:15 AM
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Yup, I actually checked Dh's phone history. I knew I would not find anything......but still looked lol. Like you I know he loves me and I have nothing to worry about.....but I feel like a whale/house!
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01-02-2013 at 12:10 PM
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Yup, I actually checked Dh's phone history. I knew I would not find anything......but still looked lol. Like you I know he loves me and I have nothing to worry about.....but I feel like a whale/house!

I haven't done that, but I did check his facebook messages one night. I felt guilty and told him. He laughed and said I was ridiculous. lol
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I think it is normal to experience some insecurity...after all...our bodies are morphing into something close to the size of a 2 Family duplex!  LOL

I have been feeling so much of the same thing...but I try not to project that on my boyfriend by sharing it with him.  Logically, I know I can trust him...no point in adding my insecurity  to the long list of hormonal crap :(
 
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