Sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board! I highly suggest reading the newbie link, it has a ton of valuable information, and if you're considering charting (also highly suggested) you may want to cruise over to Fertility Friend and watch some of the tutorials, lots of great info! Lastly, lurk! I have learned a LOT from the ladies here.
Newbie link: http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/42877040.aspx
FF - http://www.fertilityfriend.com/
Hope your stay is short and sweet :)