Before I ever got pregnant I was all for being team green.
After TTC for a while I decided I dont care if we find out the sex. (hubby wanted to know)
Part of me really wanted a girl, especially after I decided on the name Id use.
Hubby favors having a boy. (only one to pass on his family name so I get it)
Both of us will obviously take any healthy baby but theres always that little 1% sway in a certain direction.
It wasnt confirmed yet but at week 10 the doctor asked if we are going to find out the sex in the future. We said yes. He said he cant say for sure but he thinks its a boy.
I admit it took a little bit of the fun out of it. The "it may be a girl" excitement went right down the drain. Obviously I felt like sh!t for feeling any form of feeling down after TTC for more than a year and a half. I kinda regretted finding out. Team green sounded way more fun after that.
Again at 14 weeks the doc still guessed boy. Ive pretty much accepted it and Im just happy. How can I not be happy? Seeing the little peanut dance on the screen, slide down my uterus and stand on its head! I feel slight flutters here and there and I just want to hug my belly!
I think the whole sex disappointment thing passes but i believe its normal to feel a little let down even if you just had the slightest preference.
Now Im just hoping that if we have a baby #2 its a girl! lol
one and one would obviously be ideal