I'm in the same boat, just a few weeks behind. I personally would wait to see the doctor, just so I know everything is okay down there. I did have a little tear up and have a 2nd degree tear down, so I don't want to ruin any healing that I did and make things worse for us. I feel bad for DH-- we haven't seen any action since I was maybe 6 months pregnant, so since September?! And it sucks because I've been in the mood lately! I even had a sexy dream of us last night!! hahaha I mostly def. can not wait to get our sex life back, but I don't want to ruin it in case my body isn't ready yet. He'll be getting some OTHER form of attention VERY soon ;D haha
Best of luck!!!