Thanks! It is so frustrating because they said boy at 12 and 15 weeks and so I have been starting to bond in my mind with this baby boy but at 17 they said well it still looks like it could be a boy but possibly a girl...lol. We are so excited either way but I wish we just knew for sure so that I could start bonding mentally with a girl or boy...if that makes sense...
That's all still really, really early..... I wouldn't trust anything before 20 weeks, necessarily. Even then, ultrasounds have the possibility of being wrong.
I don't understand the "bonding with baby mentally" thing. It's a baby regardless of whether it has a penis or a vagina.