Thanks mamas. When DS was a week old I was mistaken in the 104 vs 100.4 temp difference. I had it wrong. Thankfully a friend is a pedi and when I posted she was like "Hey, go see the doc, that's too high!" so now I'm always worried I'm thinking about DD and not considering DSs age correctly. Anyhow, he is minorly ill and now on acetometophen/ibuprofen as needed.
ETA: And napping! In fact, they are both napping!! Woot