Yeah, these announcements always make me feel like I belong in a psych ward. When one of my best friends told me she was TTC, I thought I would have a panic attack if she would also get KU before me. Actually, every time she called me, I preemptively answered the phone with "Are you preggo already?!". I felt really guilty for feeling this and then she told me they're seeing an RE because they're having trouble and I felt relieved and I hated myself for that too. And then I rationalize and tell myself that it's not my friends' pregnancies that annoy me but just the fact that they remind me of our IF and that I'm not a bad person after all...
I totally understand you.