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01-10-2013 at 9:44 AM
MJ14323
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Work and Infertility

Do any of you ever feel like you are missing out on work opportunities because you don't have kids? I'm sitting her listening to my coworker talk to our CEO about their kids and being pregnant and everything...sounding all happy and joyous...knowing that they are bonding and it pisses me off. I shouldn't be punished because I don't have kids. Vent over.

TTC since Nov 2010 | Me: 28, DH: 29 | SA & HSG Normal
IF Treatment started December 2011
Late DX DOR after 10 months of treatment | AMH-.23, FSH-11.1
Stag II Endo removed in July 2012
5 Rounds of Clomid(50-150mg), TI & IUI#1 = BFNs
3 Rounds of Femara(5mg) & Prog, TI, IUI#2, IUI#3 = BFNs
Supplements include DHEA, CoQL, L-Caratine, Vitamin C/D/B3, Fish Oil, and Prenatal
March IVF cycle canceled due to cyst
April IVF #1 - Lupron, Saizen, Menapur, Gonal-F, baby aspirin and dexamethasone | AFC 8 >> 9R, 4M, 2F w/ ICSI...looking to do PGS testing...Stopped dividing at day 3.
Retested AMH, dropped to undetectable at <.16.
Trying to decide what to do next...
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01-10-2013 at 10:35 AM
Lacyj67
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Yeah. I work in a salon and almost every hairstylist there has kids and two just found out they are pregnant. One of them share my RE and she's on her second IVF baby. Just had her ET before Xmas. The other KU one recently was pregnant and her mom told everyone too soon and she ended up miscarring but got KU right away after that she only told me so far, waitig a few mire weeks.Another has 8 yr old twins thru IVF and another two women had to adopt due to infertility . Lots if infertility around me I must say. I'm very close with all my co workers and most of them know all about my IVF struggles and it makes me more comfortable around all of them to talk about it and how im feeling. It is nice to have such a big support system since I don't have much family around me.
It can be quite hard though when everyone is busy with there kids and talk about it a lot but I know all of there children and love them all... Except those twins are a peice of work... Lol don't tell her I said that! Hahaa
I just try to go with the flow . I'm still truly happy for them when someone gets KU and can't help to be a bit jealous all at the same time. Sorry your having a rough time it will be your turn soon!!!

Me 32 and DH 37 married in aug. 2002 Did 5 round of clomid 2010 =BFN High levels of NK CELLS DX sept.2012 DOR:# 0.02 IVF #1 May 2012 ER 4, EF 2, ET 2 =BFN Hysteroscopy 7/12/12 D&C preformed and one Polyp removed MINI IVF Oct.2012 Cancelled 10-27-12 Ivf #3 Antagonist Protocol April 2013 Ivf #3 Cancelled April 22nd 2013 Currently doing a DE CYCLE. ER around mid july and FET for me sept. 3 rd 2013. Everyone Welcome  
01-10-2013 at 8:21 PM
LuClo
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Yes!  My department only has 9 people to start with.  Last year was really bad, we lost 3 long-term coworkers and had 3 maternity leaves (two overlapped, one was a month later).  That means at times we had less than half the people we should.  So I got to cover lots of extra cases.  It was awesome.

Now that everyone's back, and they're always comparing what their kids are doing/eating/saying/pooping, and trading baby stuff.  And if I'm really lucky, on the holidays we're in the office for, they all bring their babies to play together.  It's almost more awesome than when I carried all their work. 

Wow, bold and italics in one post?  Clearly I have some unresolved anger.  The part that makes it hurt most is that if DH and I weren't facing IF, our baby would have been born at that same time.  When they were all walking around with those beautiful bellies, and everyone on campus was making jokes about something in the water, and asking when I was going to get KU too, DH and I were going through fertility testing. 

We were having a work shower for the third girl, everyone going to a lunch together, gifts, cards, cute baby clothes, etc.  The third work shower since we'd been ttc.  I took that morning off for an appointment to go over our first round of testing and planned to be at work in time for the shower.  That was the morning we learned DH was azoo.  I was a hot mess when I called my boss to let him know I was taking the rest of the day.  He thoughtfully reminded me of the shower.


 


TTC since August 2010
DH diagnosed with Azoospermia in January 2012
Vas reconstruction surgery in April 2012; unsuccessful
IVF with ICSI February 2013; single blastocyst 5dt
Due November 8th!

 
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