Ok, I didn't mean to come off as trying to offend any single moms...and yes, there is more to the story than is written here...
yes, she should have left him as a drug addict, but he was bad for her before they even got married and EVERYone tried to tell her how he was bad news...but she wanted to be married and wanted a kid so badly, it didn't matter who the guy was.
And I guess I'm not upset about it being from 2 men b/c I know that happens all the time! and I commend single moms, I do. But to believe his 'sterile shot' story is just beyond words. She can't be that naive?! And she did know he was married the entire time, but he repeatedly lied to her over and over again. (not about the wife thing, but in other regards)...
So, I guess I just would have thought more of her after being through the marriage she had, the situation she was in, to fall for this act.
That's all...
And yes, part of me is upset b/c she was just too happy for me with my first DD so it is hard for me to find a way to be happy about this...esp. when she complains about her troubles as a single mom (it is my business if she tells me about it...it wouldn't be my business if I'm just making my own observations, and getting involved).
Sorry if I offended anyone...not my intention, but I just expected more from my friend, and to be careful after the first situation she had.