nlscroggins:not so much a b!tchfest, more like a hurtfest lol but my best friend, who knows we are trying to get pregnant (and knows we are having troubles at that), honest to God told me that she wont be able to be happy for me at first when i get pregnant, and that i would need to give her about 3 days to get over it. she claims it's because she will be sad that it will be the "end of an era" of us being able to hang out and do whatever, so i guess she thinks that life ends when you become a parent (she and i are the same age and she has never been in a relationship, so i guess she doesnt understand how priorities kind of shift when you enter the grown up married world). my sis seems to think she's a jealous friend (since she was also the center of a lot of drama surrounding my wedding), but i'm not sure if that's it or not. i mean i guess i can see where she's coming from to an extent, but to tell your best friend that you cant be happy for her is just beyond terrible and kinda selfish. it made me so sad.
when I was telling bestie about planning to start trying her response was "OMG, you and L might be preggerz for my wedding?? pout pout". She was already married at this point (in a courthouse) and they have (now) stopped planning the big party reception they were going to do this summer.
She does not know that we actually started trying, because I was sick of the "but then we can't get together and get schwasted" responses.
Even more, L did get KU and friend plans on us grabbing a drink before/after the shower coming up in a month. 
its a two hour drive for me, and she's coming in from TN to OH. I'm not sure how many drinks she thinks we can have...