Welcome! I'm fairly new to this too. Been TTC since November and it hasn't been going as smooth as I'd hoped. Going off BCP and waiting for your body to get back to normal so it's easier to catch O is frustrating! I started temping this cycle and will probably do OPK's too so I can hopefully catch that O!
It stinks when others get pregnant so fast...sometimes without even trying. But keep reminding myself that everyone is different. Good luck!