So, I lost the baby-apparently stopped developing around 8-9 weeks. I pretty much knew that was going to be the end result as I just did not feel pregnant. I think because of that, I already accepted it and it was a relief of sorts to hear the Dr say it. I will have a D&C Wed and we will try again in two months.
I have always been a realistic type of person, not really optimistic or pessimistic, so I choose to view this as it was nature's way of saying this baby was not meant to be. Ironic as I found out, a friend texted me to say she just got her BFP and another pregnant friend texted worried about some cramping. I am so happy for both and tried to advise as best I could, and believe in a few months I will be back! This was literally our 1st attempt, so at least out of this sad time, I learned I can get pregnant, I have the most amazing husband and support system and I found Drs I like!
A very happy and healthy rest of 1st Trimester to you all!!!