I can't really feel the baby, but there are a lot of times that I can tell he is on one side opposed to the other and that isn't just by where he kicks me. But I could never tell you what I was feeling. It will just feel different where he is at then on the side that he isn't on.
This. Sometimes I can feel where the baby is ....and sometimes I don't feel anything except my uterus. Also sometimes my tummy looks a bit lopsided or I can see a spot poking out. I try not to do it often but if I do push on my tummy it usually just makes the baby move or kick.