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01-14-2013 at 11:37 AM
Kristen050
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Teaching LO to fall asleep on their own

How do you do it?  I watch his cues so he's not overtired and I get putting them down drowsy but awake but that just does not work for DS2. Putting him down drowsy always just turns into an all out scream fest. I really wouldn't care about nursing, rocking, or helping him to sleep on his own but we are at a point now where in the afternoon he just won't do it. In the morning he will fall asleep on his own in the swing but after that its a battle. 

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01-14-2013 at 11:44 AM
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I'm pretty sure "drowsy but awake" is made up crap...I've tried it so many times and my LO's reaction is the same as yours. Several ppl have reassured me that they get better at soothing themselves to sleep with age, but for now they need some help.  I just keep telling myself everything is a phase...
 
01-14-2013 at 11:50 AM
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At 6 weeks old?  Good luck.

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01-14-2013 at 11:56 AM
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mabenner1:
At 6 weeks old?  Good luck.

haha right? Maybe they are lying but it seems like a lot of people on my BMB are able to do this! Like I said, I don't mind helping him if any of it would even work. He just fights sleep so hard, especially in the afternoon which just leads to him being more tired and cranky. 


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01-14-2013 at 12:20 PM
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Kristen050:

mabenner1:
At 6 weeks old?  Good luck.

haha right? Maybe they are lying but it seems like a lot of people on my BMB are able to do this! Like I said, I don't mind helping him if any of it would even work. He just fights sleep so hard, especially in the afternoon which just leads to him being more tired and cranky. 

Late afternoon/early evening was DS's "witching hour" for a while. He was just a miserable little turd for about an hour or 2 every day. They do outgrow it, I promise!


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01-14-2013 at 12:25 PM
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mabenner1:
Kristen050:

mabenner1:
At 6 weeks old?  Good luck.

haha right? Maybe they are lying but it seems like a lot of people on my BMB are able to do this! Like I said, I don't mind helping him if any of it would even work. He just fights sleep so hard, especially in the afternoon which just leads to him being more tired and cranky. 

Late afternoon/early evening was DS's "witching hour" for a while. He was just a miserable little turd for about an hour or 2 every day. They do outgrow it, I promise!

This exactly. And yes, most people are probably exaggerating or not being honest! Do what is best for your LO and things will eventually work themselves out :)


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01-14-2013 at 1:13 PM
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6 weeeks is pretty young for the whole drowsy but awake thing.  Some babies do it, but some scream. Like you said.

That said, my DD (and DS for that matter) is one of those babies who you can put down drowsy but awake and she will chill and stare at the ceiling fan until she falls asleep. Sometimes fusses a little but pop the binky in and she's quiet.

I fully realize MOST babies are not like this and I'm lucky, but not everyone on your BMB is full of sh*t. lol

 Just do what works for you and your baby. As they get older, some babies get better at soothing themselves to sleep.


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01-14-2013 at 2:12 PM
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eebaehr:
I'm pretty sure "drowsy but awake" is made up crap...I've tried it so many times and my LO's reaction is the same as yours. Several ppl have reassured me that they get better at soothing themselves to sleep with age, but for now they need some help.  I just keep telling myself everything is a phase...

Drowsy but awake is not made up crap, but you are right that this is something that gets better with age. Rocking your baby to sleep will not spoil him/her and if the ultimate result is sleep... Everybody wins! Do what feels right and works. You don't really want to sleep train until after 3 months, if that's what you choose to do, but it doesn't hurt to establish routines now... Maybe before naps you read LO a quiet book, put on some music, rock 5 min, and then put him/her in the crib... After a few weeks they learn the routine and know what to expect. GL!


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01-14-2013 at 2:20 PM
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The put them down drowsy thing worked great for us with my son. BUT we didnt start doing that until he was sleeping or mostly sleeping through the night (around 9-10wks old). After a new naps/nighttimes of doing it, he was a pro. At age 3 he is still an AMAZING sleeper. It does work, but i think 6wks is just too early. Wait until babys a little older and try it again, you may just be surprised! 

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01-14-2013 at 6:12 PM
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We have been working on this as well, and it is starting to get easier. In the beginning, what worked for us was putting him down without breaking contact immediately. I would put him in his crib, but keep one hand behind his head and one behind his bottom. Usually I was able to pat his leg or bottom until he calmed down again. After that, I would slowly pull one hand away, then the other.

 We have been doing this for a few weeks and it is defintely getting better. Now we are usually able to put him down when he is drowsy and walk away. We watch him on the monitor and he will eventually fall asleep on his own.  Otherwise we pat or rub him until he calms down. If he starts to cry again he will usually calm down if we hold pat/rub to let him know we are still there.


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01-15-2013 at 4:55 PM
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DS wasn't able to do this until he was 8/9 weeks old.  I'd say just give your LO a little more time.

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