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01-14-2013 at 3:37 PM
Filly78
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Almost 10mo - night waking for food

DS will be 10 months next weekend.  We've had a lot of sleep issues with him the past few weeks.  First he had a cold and was waking up a few times, then got an ear infection, so the night waking was totally understandable.  Once the meds kicked in he was back to sleeping through the night.  Only lasted a few days though.  The past couple nights he's woken up screaming around 4-5AM and nothing we do will comfort him, except giving him a bottle of BM.  Then he goes back to sleep for another few hours.  We eliminated night feedings months and months ago.  Maybe it's a growth spurt?  He usually goes to bed around 9:30 and has been getting a 6oz bottle around 6:30, Gerber Stage 3 around 8 and another 6 oz bottle around 9PM.  I would think that would be enough to last through the night....  Any ideas?

 
01-14-2013 at 3:51 PM
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The EXACT same thing happened to us right before the 9 month appt.  The dr said, "She's playing you.  You have to stop."  So it was a rough few nights.  We reduced that 4 am bottle each night until we just gave her a bottle of water.  She was so mad, but it did work.  No more wakings for us!  It turned out it wasn't hunger, but she was looking for comfort.  She sometimes wakes between 4-5am now and whines a little, but puts herself back to sleep.  I was going crazy trying to figure out if she'd had enough food throughout the day.  

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01-14-2013 at 3:55 PM
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braintree:
The EXACT same thing happened to us right before the 9 month appt.  The dr said, "She's playing you.  You have to stop."  So it was a rough few nights.  We reduced that 4 am bottle each night until we just gave her a bottle of water.  She was so mad, but it did work.  No more wakings for us!  It turned out it wasn't hunger, but she was looking for comfort.  She sometimes wakes between 4-5am now and whines a little, but puts herself back to sleep.  I was going crazy trying to figure out if she'd had enough food throughout the day.  

LOL our doctor said the same thing because my LO started doing this around 9 months old! My LO knew I'd come running if he started crying and I did! I even fed him one night because he NEVER wakes up crying and I didn't know what to do. Turns out it was a little seperation anxiety and picking him up just made things worse AND made him keep doing it night after night. Pedi suggested I do in, rub his head, let him know I'm there but then leave the room. He eventually stopped waking up after a few days and went back to his normal routine. Kids!


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01-14-2013 at 4:37 PM
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I don't have a problem letting him CIO, but he really starts screaming.  Sometimes we can just go in and pat his back and put the pacifier back in and he'll go back to sleep, but the past 2 nights that hasn't worked and my husband has resorted to giving him a bottle.  I'm all for letting him CIO a few nights so he'll stop doing this, but my husband is a lot softer than me and won't stop going in and picking DS up.  Ugh!
 
01-14-2013 at 4:41 PM
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Filly78:
I don't have a problem letting him CIO, but he really starts screaming.  Sometimes we can just go in and pat his back and put the pacifier back in and he'll go back to sleep, but the past 2 nights that hasn't worked and my husband has resorted to giving him a bottle.  I'm all for letting him CIO a few nights so he'll stop doing this, but my husband is a lot softer than me and won't stop going in and picking DS up.  Ugh!

Screaming huh? Are you sure the ear infection is gone/getting better? Maybe you just get up and feed him for a while while this phase passes. Who knows with kids!


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01-14-2013 at 8:55 PM
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kbruington:

Filly78:
I don't have a problem letting him CIO, but he really starts screaming.  Sometimes we can just go in and pat his back and put the pacifier back in and he'll go back to sleep, but the past 2 nights that hasn't worked and my husband has resorted to giving him a bottle.  I'm all for letting him CIO a few nights so he'll stop doing this, but my husband is a lot softer than me and won't stop going in and picking DS up.  Ugh!


Screaming huh? Are you sure the ear infection is gone/getting better? Maybe you just get up and feed him for a while while this phase passes. Who knows with kids!


This. And I can't stand pediatricians who throw around sleep advice as if they're trained. Ds is 14 months, and still wakes to eat during growth spurts and illness. He's not playing me, he's hungry.

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01-15-2013 at 1:45 AM
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Maybe he just really needs to eat. Needs change over time. Haven't you ever woken up starving or thirsty?

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01-15-2013 at 9:59 AM
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eav2c:
Maybe he just really needs to eat. Needs change over time. Haven't you ever woken up starving or thirsty?

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01-15-2013 at 12:04 PM
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MomtoH:

eav2c:
Maybe he just really needs to eat. Needs change over time. Haven't you ever woken up starving or thirsty?

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01-15-2013 at 12:42 PM
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mabenner1:
kbruington:

Filly78:
I don't have a problem letting him CIO, but he really starts screaming.  Sometimes we can just go in and pat his back and put the pacifier back in and he'll go back to sleep, but the past 2 nights that hasn't worked and my husband has resorted to giving him a bottle.  I'm all for letting him CIO a few nights so he'll stop doing this, but my husband is a lot softer than me and won't stop going in and picking DS up.  Ugh!

Screaming huh? Are you sure the ear infection is gone/getting better? Maybe you just get up and feed him for a while while this phase passes. Who knows with kids!

This. And I can't stand pediatricians who throw around sleep advice as if they're trained. Ds is 14 months, and still wakes to eat during growth spurts and illness. He's not playing me, he's hungry.

Mine gives sleep advice all the time but we just do what we feel works best. It's not the same every time either so you just have to know your child and what they need/what works.


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01-15-2013 at 2:12 PM
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I agree w/PPs above.  Sometimes babies just need to eat.  Or want to eat or whatever.  Just do whatever works for you.  I still feed my 12 month old at night and she goes back down right away.  Yes it gets tiring but I've said this before, your baby is only a baby once.  My toddler doesn't wake up at all at night and I don't BF her anymore so eventually your children will sleep better and eventually you'll wean and life will be wonderful right? 
01-15-2013 at 3:57 PM
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Our pedi tried to give sleep advice and nothing worked, DS just isn't a great sleeper. He will only sleep 8 hours a night regardless of what we try, and its 8 hours to a T. We have tried it all! He naps pretty well and we have adjusted to make it work!
 
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