showers stress me out BIG time - that said mine will be a surprise because "that's what we do" ugh - lol!
so DH is in the loop with everything to make sure my wishes are being heard even though "I don't know anything..." so DH basically got stuck in the middle because SO many people were involved in picking a date and apparently someone who I really want to be there can't. While that sucks I'll live and I'm sure whoever this person is and I can spend some pre/post baby time going to lunch or something fun so no big deal.
My biggest issue is I TOLD THEM all my mom, mil, sil, aunts.... you get the idea, that they needed to discuss a date before Christmas well I guess they finally realize I was right :(
Don't get me wrong I am SUPER lucky and happy they all want to be part of my shower planning but if I had to guess there are 6 people MAJORLY involved in the planning and I'm sure another 3-4 who were consulted on the date before it was picked lol