Yup, Boots, we both had October losses. Good luck with your upcoming IVF; I really hope it works for you.
You too! I've done a few medicated cycles (just with femara and HCG) with and without IUI so I might be able to answer some questions.
Has your RE done RPL testing? If not I would request that.
You can also request a Rx for a prenatal with methylated folate, instead of folic acid. Some women have a genetic defect that prevents them from converting folic acid into folate. They should do that testing as part of RPL, but it doesn't hurt to take the methylated folate in the meantime.
I hope you get some answers.